Well, since you guys seem to have all these answers for these social issues let me drop in with something which caused a huge fight with my man the other day.
When I met my man I had been single for sometime and being a single chick I had managed to make friends with a number of guys. So when I started hanging out with my dude it so happened we were meeting all these guys who were my genuine friends and I would say hie and sometimes hug the close ones ? and as you might have guessed this did not go down with my dude. It was a major issue with him.
The thing is I have more male friends than female friends for various reasons the main ones being that us chicks know how to back-stab each other, hate on each other and are often not honest with how we truly feel about each other. So over the years I have accumulated more male friends: some of whom I am really close to. I mean, it is possible for both sexes to have friends of the opposite sex right?
Now my dude’s issue is that all my male friends are probably only after my booty and are not really friends. He says men have this ego thing and whenever they see that you have a dude that?s when they will be probably start asking you out ? he says male friends who’d rather have you around them and single. And the funniest of them all he says why should a man have a female friend hanzi “munotamba chii?.
Well I find it amazing ? is it because my dude is not confident, ?lacks game? or he has a point: all men who hang around you want to get into your pants?maone.