A couple of chaps have criticised me for having a sort of traffic-circle scenario with my ex-girlfriends. Apparently I rotate without ever leaving the circle, and really should pick my ass up and move on down the road. Huh?
Which begs the question: when is an “ex” really an EX. And by ex, I mean this to include either a full relationship, an occassional splackavelli or even (but just barely) a one-night shag. Is it wrong to play around with your “Previous”? Or is it a case of once a shag always a shag?
Looking at this the other way, is it okay to date a friend’s ex? How do you go about it? Do you ask for permission first, just in case your friend is doing the round-robin thing (or maybe still has feelings)? Or do you not even bother going there thinking it’s offside?
I don’t think it’s offside, really, once she/he is an ex, I believe it’s fair game for anyone *with* game 🙂